On His Terms: Val’s Story of finding Resilience

A story of overcoming trauma and finding resilience.
A client smiles and laughs while talking to a VOA Alaska staff member.
Val smiles and laughs while talking to a VOA Alaska staff member.
A client smiles and laughs while talking to a VOA Alaska staff member.
Val smiles and laughs while talking to a VOA Alaska staff member.

At fourteen, Val moved from Missouri to Anchorage to live with his father, leaving behind a troubled past marked by abuse. Hoping for a fresh start, he soon faced new challenges—within his family and his mental health. In search of support, Val found VOA Alaska.

His journey began in the Outpatient Mental Health program, where he worked with a therapist to improve his well-being. He then transitioned to the Supportive Housing program with the goal of securing stable housing.

Val vividly remembers stepping into his first apartment. “I was overjoyed,” he says. “It was my first apartment, the first thing I could truly call mine, my own space. When I was younger, I never had a room to myself, never had that sense of personal space.”

With stable housing, Val focused on education and employment. Working with VOA Employment Specialist, Desiree Cameron, he set out to find a job and earn his GED. Initially, adjusting to support was challenging. But Desiree’s patience helped him build trust and confidence.

That confidence was essential. After dropping out of school, balancing work and education felt overwhelming. He felt like he “couldn’t mentally handle [it].”

Val talks to VOA Alaska staff.

 

But once he was ready, things moved quickly. Within a week, he was enrolled in classes. With determination, he not only started his coursework but also landed a job. What once seemed impossible became an achievement driven by his resilience. In a few months, Val earned his GED.
Today, he’s still employed and has seen significant progress in overcoming his social anxiety.
“I’m actually getting to the point where I feel comfortable enough at work to branch out and ask customers questions if I see they’re struggling with something. [That’s] definitely been helping with my social anxiety.”
With newfound confidence, Val took a break from therapy, feeling ready to apply the life skills he’d learned. He’s already enrolled in courses to pursue his dream of designing video games.
“It’s definitely gotten easier for me to see my goals—when I look at my achievements, it makes me feel better, makes me want to chase down the next goal.”
From finding stability to building a future, Val’s journey is a testament to perseverance, self-discovery, and the power of support. And now, he’s doing it—on his own terms.